Just as a follow up I finally got tired of my camera randomly going blank whenever it felt like it. So a couple days ago I decided to take out that square panel in the trunk door trim to see what was back there, and low and behold it was the connections for the backup camera, and trunk handle. Put the car in camera calibration mode (turn radio off, press map 3 times, power button 2 times, and map 1 more time) so I could see if what I was doing was having some affect. On my 12' the white connector goes to the camera, and I guess over time from the rough roads in VA & me slamming the trunk closed it had worked its way lose. So far after a couple days of me and my wife driving the car it hasn't done it since, and the picture isn't fuzzy like it has been. So before heading to the dealer is something quick to try. The panel is just held in by 2 tabs, and I used a small jewelers screwdriver to pop them out.
