Yes, I can understand such a peeve...it's an EVSE, not a charger. Guilty as charged. However the understanding I'm developing is that the "little box" also throttles/governs the current, which is a big deal and what's behind my requirement of being usable on a 30A circuit.
I'm not one who would modify a plug to do an end-run around, even if it saves me some $$$ over buying an adapter. I don't know how serious you were with your remark about hacking into your 220 oven circuit...maybe you're joking about all of this? Hopefully you've got some electrician credentials.
Anyway, an update for anyone who cares: after diving into several options, reading reviews (and interpreting them, as is always necessary on Amazon), I ended up ordering this unit. Made by the same folks that do the Wallbox. I like that this isn't a wi-fi unit...KISS, simpler firmware, fewer failure modes. I may change my mind on that someday, though, and want something I can connect to remotely.
https://ev-chargers.com/nema-14-30/nema-14-30-level-2-ev-charger
Should be here Monday. Cheers!