I think you may be the person I was chatting with earlier today by SMS haha. I'm pretty sure Nissan doesn't loan them out, but another less ethical option would be to buy an EVSE from any local store, and then return it when you're done. Or more ethically sell it on here for a few bucks less than you bought it for.
You may find someone locally to lend you one, but given they're something like $1,000 to replace it might be tough to convince someone...
I had the Schneider EVLink second generation EVSE installed in my garage, and I had these guys do the installation:
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I think it was $450 or so for all the wiring and labor.