Update. After 6months of issues, Its Finally Resolved.
A few days after this post.
GM/chevy offered to exchange my car for a new VOLT.
So Today, I got a BRAND new 2013 Chevy Volt.
GM recommended i should go to another dealer (not the one i had the problems from).
So i went to Jim Ellis Chevrolet ( http://www.jimellischevrolet.com" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false; ). Its about 30miles from my house, but WELL worth the drive.
The sales manger personally helped me pick options (nav,leather,gps, lane departure warning, forward collision alert), color.
They handled all the paperwork issues, And had me in and out in a few hrs.
Gave me the full tour around the dealership, and even mentioned should i ever need service, they have a loaner Volt to use (hopefully i never will need it).
They even have a 6 EVSE solar powered charging station.
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