I understand Bateman's arguments and agree for the "average" driver. Also, there will certainly be a difference for the leaser vs owner and I would probably have a different behavior if I were leasing. By all means, let's help the average Joe/Jane get into a leased EV, forget about babying the battery, and keep it fully charged, ready to go a the drop of a hat.
However, since I'm nowhere near average, I don't feel like I'm doing anything extra, except maybe thinking a day ahead. In nearly two years, I haven't had to switch to the ICE or not do an EV trip more than a handful of times. Conversely, I do find that having the EV helps me to do more activities than I would otherwise (concerts, events in the nearby towns) because of the lower fuel costs.
I've been bicycling for more than 40 yrs, so keeping the car parked in the heat of the summer is nothing new. Driving more, however, especially in the winter, is relatively new. The EV has 10 times the range I "need" for my normal commute. That's similar to my first car with about 200-250 mi range and my 20 mi commute at the time. The only difference is now I plug in every couple of days instead of filling up every 2-4 weeks. My first car was 15 yr old when I got it and I kept it for another 10 yr. My current "new" ICE is 22 yr old and I plan to keep it forever unless someone gives me another with similar capabilities (yes, that's a serious possibility since society has managed to generate so much stuff that people literally give me their old "useless" stuff when they want to buy new technology, like computers, monitors, TVs, digital cameras, VHS/CD/DVD players, stereos, answering machines, and phones, just to name a few).
Since I bought and plan to keep the EV for 20-30 yrs
, I will continue to treat it gently, but still use it just like any other tool. IMHO, it was designed primarily for in-town driving, short distances, and multiple start/stop errands where the ICE is extremely inefficient. That's my normal driving pattern (>90%), so that's what I'll do. In 20 yrs I expect to have 150,000 mi on my 2011 Leaf. Will it bother me to have "outdated" technology in the driveway? Nope, no more than having hand-me-downs in the home office. Does it bother me that I will likely have more calender loss than cycling loss on the batteries (e.g., maybe get fewer miles out of the car over it's lifetime)? Nope, It will still do those short in-town trips just fine.
I'll (mostly) leave the infrequent, long-distance, high speed, highway travel to the ICE and pay the price (10x) for the time convenience. Heck, if technology really moves along, maybe I'll just rent a 300 mi EV for those special trips (hey we can hope can't we?).