garygid : thanks for reminding me about insurance ... I plan to call safeco and see how much they'd charge me for the Leaf (that's the insurance company we use for my wife's Honda Fit).
I also need to call PGE ... I need to start making a list.
AV called me on friday (I was away for the WE), to ask me if I was interested in buying the charger alone. I asked how quickly they could send it to me, and she said that as "I was apparently one of the first delivery of the car, they'd make sure they'd ship it to me in time for my delivery". I never contacted AV, so Nissan must have done so, and they must have told them I wasn't happy about the pricing.
I'm now hesitating if I should get it or not ... that's going to be something like $1500, not cheap, but it'll be way more convenient to charge than to open my garage door every night, to unpack the L1 charger from Nissan from the trunk, and go plug it in on both ends... (I'm parking on the driveway, as the garage is used for storage).
If only I was part of the EV Project, I wouldn't have to ask myself all these questions ...