With special, last-minute instructions to NOT deliver and HOLD at the depot, it is best to check before driving there. Sometimes it gets loaded onto the truck the night before, and the package "misses" the HOLD.
Yes, I think both UPS and FedEx show "Out for Delivery", but that can be incorrect if the package was "snatched" back off the truck at the last minute.
Usually (around here) they try hard, I think, but handle a LOT of packages.
See SOC/GID-Meter and CAN-Do Info
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