I see that you're reluctant to go with a "kit" EVSE like openEVSE or Juicebox, but the advantage they give is more than just their low cost. They're also way better than any "off the shelf" options in terms of portability and adjustability. Adjustability is a big plus if you ever want to take your EVSE with you to charge on the road. Your 30a EVSE is no good if you're at a friend's house or vacation rental with a 30a dryer outlet you could plug in to (you'd need to derate to 24a) or if you bring a quick220-style device to get 240v from two 120v outlets (derate to 12a or 16a).
Also, if you're comfortable doing the wiring for your circuit, you should have no problem whatsoever putting together your own EVSE, and you can get either type pre-assembled if you prefer anyway. Plus, UL listing is worthless as a guarantee of actual safety, although it may help with insurance in the exceedingly rare event of a fire attributable to the EVSE. Note that many of the commercial offerings aren't UL listed either, while the most dangerous one seen yet (Blink) was. If a fire does occur, it's much more likely to occur in the in-home wiring. If you're comfortable enough to do that yourself instead of going with a pro, why not put your EVSE together too? In all likelihood it'll actually be safer, since you'll know how it operates and can carefully inspect your own workmanship, rather than getting a "black box" that you never open.