Ok ... Nissan stopped by on Wednesday. Made an additional set of oscilloscope records with the unmodified LEAF demonstrating the noise. The noise, btw, is not a 60Hz hum, more like 4kHz plus harmonics. Then switched to their modified LEAF. More data recording.
Result: problem (basically) solved.
My house electrical system seems very sensitive to any outside influence, including GFCI and another EV charging making "noise" (bug zapper type). Even one of their measurement probes was not completely silent while recording off of a sub-panel, even with the modified LEAF. This contrasted to other test locations with the expected "silence".
So the most important bottom line: the modified LEAF has cured the original issue I discovered. And Nissan has figured out the TSB (Technical Service Bulletin) to implement an "upgrade" if it is necessary for any one particular owner's situation. However, be aware there are parts shortages, and so priority is given to current production, not already delivered LEAFs. Exact dates/VINs were not shared with me, but apparently LEAFs in production as of sometime in March already have the new "countermeasures" curing this noise issue. If I obtain VIN or Mfg Date info, I'll pass it along.
As Christopher commented, there are many variables, and many LEAF owners will never see a problem or symptoms. My situation was extreme and just the right amount of "wrong" circumstances conspired to make the issue very apparent here at home. But if you experience "noise" issues as discussed in this thread, bring it to the attention of your dealer's service manager.
Thank you, Nissan