Welcome to LEAF ownership! I've had my S for a few months, so I got a chance to get a feel for it at mild temps before Winter came on. I've noticed the range reduction of the cold weather. The range chart may be a bit optimistic on the footnotes about adjusting your estimate based on temperature. But it is always hard to tell because you most always have to hit the defrost a couple of times, and are often driving on a less than dry roadway.
You had the unfortunate circumstance to be forced to doing a longer trip right out of the chute. I purchased my car with roughly the same daily commute expectations, and similar if not colder climate, and can say it really hasn't been a problem. I've been driving around everywhere with seat and wheel heater on and the heat set to low fan and 80 just to try and better get a feel for how it impacts my usage on my commute. It is really hard to tell. There are so many variables.
One thing to be aware of, and I don't believe I've seen it happen yet, but as the temp drops below zero, if the battery gets that cold as well, it kicks on a battery heater. It can happen in the parking lot while powered off. So it is possible to return to the car with significantly less charge than it had when you left it there. The good news is that driving around and charging both serve to heat the battery. And that it seems to take more than half a day for the battery to drop closer to matching outside temp.
The battery heater, once tripped on, stays on until the battery gets up around 14(F) (or until you reach 30% SOC). To my way of thinking, that's one heck of a lot of electricity, fighting against a cold windy day, to get it back to 14. I have not had to park outdoors overnight or for a period of days to report any actual observations. As I say, the good news is that the battery temp swings very slowly to match outdoor temp and often by that time the outdoor temp has improved. I don't have the smartphone app that can show the actual temp of the battery.
So, I think your "A" plan is good. You are hearing a lot of good advice here, but rest assured you don't have to follow all of it to get 'er done on your commute. These tips come most in handy when you have to do a longer trip (such as your trip home from the dealership). Some people (your spouse perhaps?) see all of this and want to throw up their hands. It's all good advice, but your planned use does not require that level of optimization.
Here are my tips to you:
1) Wal-Mart, throw blankets <$3, buy several, black works well with the interior, in addition to a cozy leg wrap that keeps in the heat from the seat, they are handy to cover from prying eyes what is in your trunk as well.
2) plugshare.com, print closeup maps of how to get to your area charging stations, keep them in the car, and carefully review the comments about them. Get any required membership cards activated, even if you don't plan to use a given location. This way you are covered if you lose cell signal for mapping, or have an unexpected diversion to your commute arise.
3) Visit some of the available charging stations so you are familiar with them. And if you wish for more to be installed, find some ways to use some of the existing ones that are around. I have one near my library. I use it as an excuse to get down to the library, and I pull the 1hr minimum charge while I'm there. It is my $1.50 investment in ensuring others see usage in my area.
4) You don't have to always "fill 'er up". Keep in mind that you can always just "top off" or pick up an extra 20%. Watch carefully how a given location charges for use so you generally get at least what is included in any minimum charges.
I kept my old ICE thinking I might have to pull it out periodically for my commute. But I have not touched it in over 3 months now. That's over 80 gallons of gas I've not had to buy. Yes, this whole "over supply" thing with oil... that was me! :lol: I've now got a 150mi (each way) trip under my belt (although don't think I can do it in Winter), and am now planning exploratory journeys to the west.